This whole African mentality, that once you reach a certain age you must settle down is annoying. I hate the fact that the pressure starts earlier for females. I can’t go anywhere without being asked ‘where’s your boyfriend’ ‘ah ah when are you getting married’ I can’t even say I just want to enjoy being single while I can as they think I want to be a spinster, what’s up with that?
I find it so funny that any male friend or any male for that matter in my life automatically becomes romantically linked to me if I’m seen with them.
Just let me live my life and let the chips fall where they may!!
I am healing. I am growing. One day, I will be good at this.r.i.d. (inkskinned)
Start a fresh…. new beginnings and all that